1. I'm telling you I personally know men and women this happened to. A whole lot of them.

2. I'm also telling you that the women having sex with their husband simply because he wants it, even when she doesn't, are leaving their marriages.

I'm not saying sex is the only issue in marriages, but once you've had an incompatible partner, you realize just how important it actually is.

I know tons of men who write here on Medium who likely thought the same way you do. "She'll put out twice a week to keep me happy." And then found out the hard way that, in fact, she would not. She might have thought she was okay with sex. But she wasn't. You have no idea just how many women have been traumatized by men. The number is staggering. And yeah, until they get into the bedroom and feel like an object they think they'll be okay with sex.

I know you're young. It's obvious you know absolutely nothing about relationships. But you need to understand that women are not here to be your on demand sex (or household servant, etc.) and her having "discipline" to have sex with you is not reality - at least not where I live.

If you ever want to find a partner who doesn't despise you, you'd better figure out what you bring to a partnership and realize no one, not even your wife, owes you sex. Your views are outdated and the reason women are choosing to stay single.