2) I've read that people can move away from their insecure attachment to a more secure one, so I want to yes. But it has not been true for me. I've also been single for a few years, and maybe over time things will change for me, but my last relationship triggered me badly. His test showed he was securely attached, but I can't help but feel like he must have at least exhibited protest behaviors and other anxious style behaviors for me to have been attracted to him in the first place. Maybe he lied on the test?