And that's another situation all together! I read a wonderful book called Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft and I have tried to give it to women in bad situations, but they didn't want it.

In the end people make their own choices, but I think if we can make rape unacceptable on every level - and men ostracize other men who even joke about it - we'd see major improvement. At this point, it's just accepted in our rape culture.