Feb 6, 2025
I am so happy for you! Realizing that we need to heal and that our partner will never be there with us is an important step. Some people truly just don't want to be better people.
I'm going to guess that your gut was right - your husband was "trying" to change, but not in any meaningful way, simply in the "If I do this, will you do that?" type of way. And that never lasts, nor works to solve major marital issues.
I wish you all the best! Hold out for that love you deserve!