I don't date at all anymore, so this was asked in a previous life, and no man ever answered it in a satisfactory way, so I never went on a date with any man I asked this question of.

I mostly used it because there were men who wanted to meet for a quick coffee date before we'd had time to really get to know each other, and I didn't want to waste my time. In retrospect, I'm sure they knew we weren't a match (because I'm not guarded about my views), so I believe they tried to shortcut the process in hopes of getting sex.

Either way, I'm much happier and at peace with no man in my life.

Thank you for reading and commenting!