I don't disagree that sex *should* be kept within committed relationships. But I will say this - I think men often trick women into thinking that they are committed until they get what they want.

I also know that sexual compatibility is a huge issue. You might think you're committed and then he/she asks you to do something you aren't comfortable with.

There are just too many variables (and that's outside of being pushed or forced to do something you don't want to do) - especially now that we aren't getting married at 16 years old with no way out.