I formed a deep connection with one man in particular and I thought we would be together forever. However, he became so possessive of my time (he had a hard time "letting" me spend time with my friends, family (including my children), coworkers, etc.) that eventually it was unlivable.

Finding connection does not mean that one or both of you can't still screw up the relationship, unfortunately.

I carry scars, especially from that relationship ending, which is why I've chosen to be single. But it's really the only way I know how to connect and I tend to form those types of bonds with most people I get close with (men and women alike). I want to know who you are in your core and when people let down their guard and we become vulnerable together, deep bonds are forged.

It's only from that place that I find attraction and ultimately the desire to be intimate. A pretty face doesn't interest me, but a beautiful mind and soul does.