I had 4 children before my pre-frontal cortex was finished developing. It has provided me both the biggest joys and the biggest sorrows in my life. I also have 2 grands now. When I had my babies, I had no other goals in life besides being a mother. That was a failure on the part of Utah culture and schools. And they certainly didn't teach me how to pick a good partner to have all those babies with. I'm grateful that the younger generation hasn't been force fed the lie that our only purpose is to keep popping out babies.