I have no contempt for my sons. All of my kids are my world. In fact we live in a multi-generational home - all 4 of my kids and 2 grandkids.

What I'm telling you is they hang out with their friends on video games. They aren't lonely. That's why they aren't making room to date. And I think it's very common for men to enjoy the company of other men. Which is great. I'm happy for them. But let's stop saying they're lonely - they are not. They want to have sex. That's not the same thing.