I just wrote an article about this - the truth is that men have long sought out female companions who are pretty, but do not know how to find one who is actually compatible. And where there is no compatibility, there is no love. For either side.
There's a lot going on with the face of relationships, but I think in the end it's going to be a good thing. We are each looking to make a connection with another human being, but I don't think men have known that was the assignment until recently. Maybe with some education, men and women alike will understand what compatibility is and how to find it.