I love this. I wrote two related articles - one about not complimenting a woman's appearance

https://medium.com/long-after-the-thrill/stop-complimenting-her-physical-appearance-3f81f5d5da51

and also one that's basically one big metaphor

https://medium.com/long-after-the-thrill/date-like-a-cat-not-like-a-dog-a6f4db64cc2c

I feel like you and I share the same relationship wavelength. I connect with all of your articles. Keep up the good work!