I should have made that clear. Of course you'll have some less than flattering thoughts about your partner from time to time, but many men are experiencing those types of thoughts every day - sometimes in every interaction.

And yes, it would be unhealthy to have one person fill every need, so I hope couples aren't spending every waking minute together, but I think, in general, if you prefer time doing other things above spending time with your wife, it's a problem.

In effect, if you have a thought or two from this list occasionally, you're probably still strong as a couple, but I'd say the more often you have them, the more likely the relationship is in trouble.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts!