I still think you missed the whole point of my article, which was simply that we hear men complain all the time about not getting sex.
Women are also not getting it. But we do not hear women complaining about it the way we do for men.
I opine that I believe this is because throughout history men have felt entitled to sex, even being allowed to take mistresses (which I didn't address in my article).
Whatever the reason, there are just as many dissatisfied women as men in martial bedrooms.
That was it. That was the point.