I think a case could be made for two people who meet in the lifestyle and begin that way, but if you were previously monogamous and then want to open it up to solve marital issues - it's definitely not going to work.
I'm glad you found your person that you're ENOUGH for. I think some people (men and women both) are looking for a perfect relationship, which they will never find.
Real relationships are based on connection - not just sex. Things like bodies and appearance fall to the bottom of importance when a true connection is formed.
Thank you for reading and commenting!