I wonder which stance you'd take if you had been dominated and abused for centuries...
We were literally forced to be free domestic baby-making labor, until VERY recently.
So yeah you'll have to cut us a little slack if we don't feel like meeting you half way at this point.
It's very clear that you've never put yourself in a woman's shoes. You have no empathy and it's why you aren't finding feminist women who are willing to meet you half way. Because you still don't even understand the issues. Nor do you have any desire to.