If I had a dollar for each one of my friends (I live in a Mormon community) that has admitted to me that they are not sexually compatible with their partner - I'd have enough for a nice sit down dinner.

You can wait for love and commitment to be intimate, but I would NEVER recommend waiting for marriage. Sexual compatibility is extremely important, especially with a partner you are supposed to be with forever.

So, please, please, stop spouting this advice. Some unsuspecting woman who likes to be held tenderly is going to end up with a man who wants to choke her, or a man who has a healthy sex drive is going to marry a woman who's asexual and doesn't know it yet - all because they've romanticized "waiting for marriage".