I'm concerned that these thoughts and some of the comments are coming from young men. It's amazing just how ingrained it is and how victimized they feel.

I don't think they realize there is something called intrinsic motivation. If the only reason you are a functioning adult is to try to get laid then the real problem is inside you.

I was born female, so this thought process is new to me. They're saying the quiet parts out loud that I never knew existed. And yikes. We have some serious dismantling to do!