"I'm curious as to how he answered your screening question?" - We agreed on a woman's right to make decisions over her own body. I didn't ask the question the way I phrased it in my article here because he wasn't rushing me to accept a date with him, so we were able to have more natural conversation around women's rights. In hindsight, maybe I should have tried to make him a little more uncomfortable with my questions.

"Wow........scary stuff. Hopefully your mom is doing well and makes a quick and complete recovery." - She was able to have the drain removed from her head on Monday and was able to come home yesterday. I'm hoping she's on the mend.

"His books should be easy to find if there is an ISBN. If self-published perhaps not......not sure if the publisher provides that as part of self-publishing?" - I found his books in the same search, but lost my appetite to buy/read them.

"He should have been upfront about it, expecting you to check anyway." - He should have and I still don't even know if that was the scenario. It could just as easily have been him recording an unsuspecting partner doing sex acts or watching a hot young neighbor or worse. I don't care enough to find out.

"Yes your picker is broken" - I think it's a completely valid reason to stop trying.