I'm guessing you're young. I'm telling you that when you marry a virgin and discover that she doesn't like having sex very much, you will be one of these old married men complaining about how their wife never wants to have sex with them.

Sexual desire is normal. The fact that we marry so much later than we used to means that anyone with a healthy sex drive is probably having sex. Someone who can abstain for decades has a low sex drive.

And most people who "enjoy themselves too much" are experiencing hypersexuality from being abused. https://thefemedic.com/first-person/hypersexuality-response-to-abuse/?source=post_page-----e2b887a8ac03--------------------------------