I'm really not sure how it's simple man hating to say that men aren't performing for their women.

"It's been reported that more than half of men aged 40-70 experience some form of ED."

https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/erectile-dysfunction/symptoms-causes/syc-20355776

"... estimated the prevalence of ED in young men to be as high as 30%."

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28642047/

It's also interesting that even though I gave a shout out to men who go out of their way for their woman, so many men opted to identify with the problem men... so I'm going to go ahead and assume that is a defensive position.

Men who identify with my statement, "There are obviously men who go out of their way — a warm thank you from all women!" read it and kept scrolling, realizing I wasn't addressing them.