I'm sapio and demisexual. I've always known I was weird and didn't experience attraction the same way others do - for example I've never experienced sexual desire based on someone's appearance, but apparently that's a thing even for women?

Thank you for bringing awareness. I, too, have dated "ugly" guys because I was hot for their mind. Looks are anyway completely irrelevant when that's not what causes you to feel attraction.

Anyway, great article!