I'm starting to wonder how it's such a widespread problem - both in men and women. It feels like there is a serious societal issue going on. I believe it is related to the (extremely) poor parenting style of previous generations.
Narcissism and Borderline are basically 2 sides of the same coin, both caused by early childhood trauma and I believe we're seeing the results of that now that people are more open about what's actually happening in their relationships.
Just a thought! Thank you for reading and commenting. I'm sorry you also experienced it. I don't know about you, but I have found much comfort in hearing that I'm not alone!