Is this a legitimate question? Each individual has his/her own goals, plans, likes, dislikes... There are as many different life paths as there are people to live them. The question makes it sound like women should all be the same, and indeed maybe since we were shoved into the same box for millennia, at one time it wasn't difficult to know what a woman "wanted" because her option consisted of getting married and having a family. So now that we aren't beholden to that lifestyle, there are a million different ways women choose to live their lives.