It was only asked of men who wanted to meet for a "quick coffee date" before we'd had a chance to really get to know each other. I'm sure they know we weren't a match since I put myself out there honestly on dating apps (when I used to date). I'm sure they were trying to shortcut the process trying to get sex before I knew what they already knew - there was no chance.

And despite what some commenters have believed, not a single one answered with what they thought I wanted to hear. I think the visceral reaction the question causes does not allow them to simply say what I want to hear. Either way, it's been super useful.

The other questions aren't as big of deal breakers except the religious one lol.

Thank you for reading and commenting!