It's amazing to me that in 2024 we are still lying about who we are, fundamentally, while dating. If we want to find a lasting relationship and a love like no other, we have to begin by showing our true self (though as you said, not too much too fast!)
John Gottman is a leading researcher in relationships and after decades of studying couples he has concluded that the best marriages are also best friendships. If you can't relate to a woman as a best friend, your relationship/marriage is dead in the water.
Great article!