It's hard because we are definitely judged on our appearance. But if you can find someone who likes you for more than just your appearance, it's a whole different experience. Quality over quantity for sure. I get far fewer matches doing it that way, but the matches are much less shallow in my experience. You can always try it for a short time, or on a new app and just see how it goes. I'd love to hear about your experience if you're willing to share it!