It's true. When they said, "You can have it all", it meant you can attempt to juggle a career and still basically be a full time caregiver.
They never updated the expectations for the husbands/fathers, so the "you can have it all" mentality has literally just been destroying us - one woman at a time! Even more so than when we were just full time unpaid domestic labor.
Something's gotta give - and it's likely going to be women willing to sacrifice their lives and bodies simply to provide men with an heir.