I've written a few articles about BPD directly. Like:

https://medium.com/long-after-the-thrill/dating-with-borderline-f6710df966ef

Or:

https://medium.com/long-after-the-thrill/why-living-with-bpd-makes-me-feel-like-the-hulk-e3d2f7c831b0

But most times I just mention it in passing. I'm always happy to answer questions, though.