Maybe it’s patriarchal, maybe I’m simply saying I wouldn’t do this to my worst enemy. Maybe it’s having human compassion for someone who is making choices that are clearly not in their own best interest.

If I came across an ad in the paper that said, "I am looking for 100 people to come trash my house." I wouldn’t sign up for that either. Even if they further said, "This is something I really want. Please come trash my house."

There is something inherently wrong with doing this, or anything like it, to anyone. Patriarchy aside.