No, this is the reality that boys are learning much more about how to be men from watching the men around them, than they are from women telling them how. So you guys better get your shit together and start SHOWING boys how to be vulnerable lest the suicide rates continue to climb. You'd better start showing them that vulnerability IS strength and that if they ever want to form real relationships - with women and otherwise in their lives - they're going to have to learn how to express themselves.