Not a lot more. Basically I was in a position where I felt like I had to choose between my kids and my husband, and my kids will always win. They are and always will be my number one priority (even if they're adults now!).

I asked him to reach out to them - and even handed him this script - "I love your mom and you guys love your mom, how can we make it work so that we can all be in her life?" And he wouldn't do it. So I left.