Please read Georgina's comment. She summarizes the experience better than I could.

I was hit on ALL THE TIME when I was underage. By nasty old/older men. I learned very young not to draw attention to myself. So I'm sure that's why I have mostly flown under the radar. But my point was more about how if you show skin at all men drool like babies. I very intentionally do not dress in a way that invites that sort of attention. Being leered at by gross old men as a teenager (and even as young as 11 and 12) cured me of the need for random male attention.

But please tell me again how I'm the judgmental one lol.