So I mostly agree with this! One disagreement, though, is about my kids, grandkids, and pets. I feel like I do love myself a healthy amount, but I love them SO MUCH MORE than I could ever love myself. So maybe there's some wiggle room in the assertion that you can only love others as much as you love yourself? Maybe at some point we have opened the gates of love to their fullest extent and are able to feel the love of the universe?