Ted Bundy. That's where he went? Yikes. Maybe in a different setting it would have been funny, but with someone you've only just met and in a bar? More creepy than funny.

I'm glad someone else could relate to this scenario. Sometimes I write articles about things that have happened in my life and I think that nobody else will really relate. This was one of them. I'm so glad that this has happened to you as well. It feels icky, but in the end if some dude just wants a piece, I don't want his attention anyway. I'm guessing you feel the same. So yeah, go for it with the woman who looks more likely to put out and save the guys who would like to establish some connection for me.