Thank you for mansplaining all this to me. I'm clear on how the brain works. I also know that I was molested before I can remember (age 3) and acted out in similar ways - though obviously nothing so severe as what Lily is doing - which is why I made the suggestion that abuse or mental health may be involved. Her self deprecation doesn't bode well either.

But please tell me more about how this is absolutely normal and the men should feel no shame for being dick #99 or #101 that day.

I know that men want to act like "no big deal" "nothing to see here" because it gets their dick hard to watch women be objectified, but as far as I'm concerned this is no different than cutting. If she were cutting you'd see it for what it is - self harm - but because it turns you on, you can only see "her body her choice" and subscribe to her channel.

Please do some soul searching and do better.