That's it exactly. When others are binging Netflix, I'm reading relationship books and listening to talks about how to improve your spirituality. You're right that it's like winning the lottery finding two people willing to put in the work (and then are compatible with each other!) - but I'm hoping that the emptiness we are all experiencing might encourage others to jump on that ship as well.

In the end, I believe our interpersonal relationships are the whole point of life. If you keep putting in the work, I think you'll call to you another person who is doing the work as well - call it karma, call it divine intervention - there is something watching out for us!