The good news is, I don't want a man at all. So I write about whatever I want, with absolutely no regard to how it comes across to potential suitors :)

If we allowed men (or people in general) to simply do everything from their natural element none of us would ever grow beyond children on the playground yanking toys away from each other.

Almost everything we do in this life is to become better people. So if you'd like to stay in your natural state, by all means, go right ahead, but don't expect women to be attracted to it.