The patriarchal structure is being dismantled. It is clear by your comments and questions that you have not evolved with the times. Most women are going to school and providing for themselves financially, which means that if you don't offer more than money, you will likely not find a partner.

Contributing to household duties is something everyone should be doing. If you are concerned about doing more than your fair share, you've missed the point entirely.

In fact, it's women who are doing far more than their share and have been for decades. Most women are not stay at home moms anymore, yet they are still carrying the bulk of the household responsibilities while working full time.

Please read my article on why women aren't having sex with their husbands to understand more.

https://medium.com/modern-women/why-she-wont-have-sex-with-you-anymore-1a7b8a8b295e