This is a great article and I'm glad she wrote it. Attraction on a first date is unlikely. In fact, I believe that we are mostly attracted to what is familiar. So how could we ever feel attracted to someone we're literally meeting for the first time? Unless, of course, as she says, he is the type of guy who knows how to create a false sense of familiarity. Narcissists are adept at this, typical playboy types are adept at this, but she's right, a typical man who is being real, is not.