Well said and I 100% agree. I think as a woman who has acted out in similar ways (though not nearly so dramatic), my article likely comes from a place in which I wish the men involved, when I was struggling, would have helped me instead of taken advantage of the situation. The same way I wish that for Lily or any woman who is hurting.

But you are, of course, correct that a man who's willing to be #98 or #37 is just as damaged as Lily herself. The whole situation is sad.