When I was 21, I had a friend who left an abusive marriage, moved on with her life, and then when the ex found out she was pregnant with her new boyfriend's baby, he walked into her place of employment and shot her in the head and abdomen. While she had a restraining order in place.

We all know.

https://www.ksl.com/article/82976/man-pleads-guilty-in-slaying-of-pregant-ex-wife

My ex-husband told me after I left him, "They don't call it crimes of passion for nothing," which was a threat of murder because I wouldn't do what he wanted me to do.

I can more easily list the women I know who haven't been victims of male violence, than the ones who have.

Yes, we all know.