Women's pleasure has not been any man's priority throughout history. In fact there used to be rumors that women couldn't enjoy sex and men would just get their jollies off and leave the woman wanting. The men who don't care enough to educate themselves can no longer simply claim not to know. At this point there is far too much information available. If you research it at all you will find a plethora of helpful websites and videos. As long as you aren't using porn as your education, and not waiting for marriage, you should be good.