Yeah I don't have any of those requirements, nor does anyone in my circle. I'm sure it varies. But I am 5'2 ish and I won't date anyone taller than 5'10". And I make plenty of money to provide for myself, so I will date anyone who is fiscally responsible and can meet his own needs without my help.

I actually think this is something that either young, inexperienced, women are looking for or potentially something men came up with to explain why women won't date them.

When, in fact, every woman I know is looking for a man who is emotionally intelligent and can form a real and deep connection. I've seen plenty of men who were not stereotypically attractive find matches that were much more attractive than they were simply because they connected in much deeper ways.

It's possible. I promise. Especially if the connection is made before you're trying to get in her pants.