Yes, and apologies for not making clear that I 100% agree! My childrens' father liked to smack my ass and say things like, "Dinner's ready? I got your dessert right here!" In front of the kids, no less. So I've definitely had sex with men who treated me like a vagina with a woman attached.

Luckily I've also had sex with men (well one man, in particular, I guess) who treated me like I was a rare and precious flower that he loved above all else. He worshipped me in the bedroom - and as you stated - I was definitely more willing to provide an amazing experience for him as well because of it.

Night and day experiences obviously. Most men are absolute garbage in the sack, just trying to get to orgasm, never realizing they are missing all the best parts by not being with someone they truly care about.