Yes, I approach in this way as well, but what I'm talking about is when I've approached men as potential partners. They have responded favorably initially, but have all ended up misreading my intentions. Men literally don't know what to do when a woman "hits on them" other than to think obviously she's desperate or just wants sex. Anyway, it was a fun experiment but I don't date at all anymore, so it's not something I'll ever do again.