Yes, I believe there is. And it involves having men be as committed to the home and family as the women are (as a generalization). I've been on both sides of home life - I've been the stay at home mother and wife and I've been the sole breadwinner. And I am telling you that work in the home is never finished. Going to work every day is MUCH easier. So for a man to feel like he goes to work and throws money at the home and that's enough of a contribution is never going to be a balanced workload. At least not with modern day jobs.

Women and men who choose each other, not because they're forced to, but because they have learned to pick a partner that they WANT to spend their lives with will always have the edge. But that will mean working on themselves as people to be the partner that can withstand the storms. Not very many men or women are currently doing this.