YES! Most people want a child for their own selfish desires - I want a baby to carry on the family name, I want to feel loved and needed, I want to have - in effect - a wonderful accessory that brings me attention...

Rarely do you hear someone say, I'd like to bring a child into this world and give them free reign to become anything they want to be... It's why so many kids are messed up, their parents have expectations of them before they are even conceived.