You are 100% correct. It is definitely difficult to address every dating concern in one article. And yes, our society has some weird fetish with height, though I think as we get older those things become less important. But I do feel for men who are struggling with being judged solely based on height. And yes, the loneliness in that case is different than the loneliness that I'm talking about here.
I believe you found a partner, eventually, thought, right? And I'm guessing she is one lucky woman because you likely cherish her.