You are conflating two very different behavior sets. Confidence is not narcissism. Narcissism is narcissism. Thinking the world revolves around you and your needs is not confidence.
And confidence works for everyone who has it. You can't fake it. Maybe that's why y'all believe you have to be attractive to gain it.
I'm really not sure where men keep getting this idea that they have to be physically attractive to be confident, but it's hurting all of you. You might want to visit reality on that one for a minute.
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