You should serve as a warning to the other male commenters I get who want to marry a virgin. I try to warn them. We don't get married young any longer, so the truth is that if she's never had sex, she might very well have no libido. Or like you mention, be sexually repressed.

I asked one guy what he would do if his wife wanted it 3 times per year when he wanted it 3 times per week. He said, "Won't she know that beforehand?" Oh dear. He also basically said that she'll know it's her duty, so she'll compromise to twice a week even if she doesn't want it.

Oof. One divorce coming right up!

Anyway, yes, almost every woman you know has been traumatized. Some might tell you if you ask, others won't. But it's a very rare woman who hasn't at least had a close call - one that taught them to fear men.